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No one appreciates how demanding it is unless they have lived it, many friends over the years said to me "lucky you, you are married to a Doctor. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree.
I have only been living with him for a month. I had to lobby and cry alot so I could bring my dog up, I am not sure how that will go because dogs have hair, need to go out, and the house might get messed up.
Count yourself lucky that your boyfriend is able to even consider going to parties with you even if you don't ultimately make it to them. Even though we live together, we barely see each jav - when he is working nights, we go several days without seeing each other at all he is usually still at work when I head out in the morning, and gone best the time I get back in the evenings.
Please share your dating experience with a doctor or a medical resident. Don't expect this to be like the others.