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The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out.
I never give him shit for it. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way.
No lie he was one of the kindest human beings I've metbut I was afraid of getting deeper into the relationship, so I ended it. He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back.